Saturday 30 March 2013

Catching up

It's been awhile since my last post, if you read my blog you will know that we had issues on our DD dynamic.  After allot of talking my husband decided that it would be best if we incorporate maintenance twice a week from now on.  The big problem on this is, I don't think I totally agree with this at all, but he outvoted me on this.

So we had our 10 year anniversary in March and I wanted to surprise him big time, I thought that a erotic photo shoot will do the trick, but as you  all know for women in a DD relationship this can be very tricky.  How will you explain to hubby that you can't have maintenance, but not spoil the surprise on the photo shoot.  For me it did not happen as I hoped, I really worked hard on making my appointment, but just as the devil wants it, the only day I can have my shoot is just the day after maintenance.

My nerve went 'ga ga' with me, how will I bring the subject up to hubby that we can't have maintenance without him thinking that I want to rule his decisions again.  Yes you guess right, it didn't worked so well at all.  I asked him if he would be careful with the spanking, so that there would be no bruises.  His response was not what I was hoping for, he wanted to know why, what is it I'm hiding, who is it I'm seeing, that cannot see any bruises?  It did not go well, it was the last thing I was hoping for, now he thinks I;m seeing someone else.

And the spanking started, hard very hard he was pissed and insecure I believe now, but I was also very upset.  It went like this;

'stop hitting so hard'
'why'
because I can't be bruised, please'
'well you should have thought about this before acting out'
'please honey, this is really importend.;
'Tell me why, are you going to the doctor?'
'Noooooooooooooooo, please stop I have another appointment tomorrow.'
Spank, spank spank spank and the slipper came out, and before you know it there was a bottom full of bruises.

I scream and lost my cool instantly, hysterical is an understatement.
' I have a photo shoot tomorrow idiot, and you've ruined it for me and for you, how could you?'

He stopped.............................................................................sigh......................................why didn't you tell me baby?
' Because it was supposed to be a surprise, for our anniversary.'


And the whole night was ruined, he felt bad, lectured me on behaving badly and brought all this over myself, and made him feel awful about everything.  All I could think about is,  now I must cancelled and the surprise is over, everything I've planed is ruined.

Tears........................................................................................................................................................................................

He felt really bad, and mad at himself, and I felt bad as well.  To cut to the chase I had to cancel, but did the shoot the following week, a week after our big day, but I came to the conclusions;  If you choose this lifestyle you have to make some sacrifices as well.

In the end, he treated me like a princess on our anniversary, he bought me a big diamond ring, write me a poem, and spoil me with a wonderful night out.  He is still my prince, and yes we are still doning DD because it works.